Welcome to Your Becoming! It Start's with Reconnecting to Your Core Emotional Needs. This is Your Invitation to Rewrite Your Story.
more joy. more play. more freedom. more peace. more you.
The sky was never the limit. Just your old story.
From Proving to Presence,
From Self-less-ness to Unapologetic Self-ish-ness.
From Emotional Disconnection to Feeling from Within.
the self-in-sight manifesto
You’ve held it all.
The career. The family. The image. The standards.
You’ve played every role perfectly—
until perfect started to feel like a golden cage.
Now, there’s a quiet ache.
Not because you got it wrong—
but because you’ve outgrown the version of you the world applauded.
You’re not here to prove anymore.
You’re here to feel.
To soften.
To remember.
This is the journey:
From proving to presence.
From self-less-ness to unapologetic self-ish-ness.
From emotional disconnection to feeling from within.
This isn’t rebellion.
It’s remembrance.
Not resistance—
but a return to what’s always been true.
You don’t need to become someone new.
You just need to come home to you.
Welcome to Self-in-Sight.
The portal is open.
Self-in-Sight
Not just an APP-
A Portal for an Emotional Revolution!
WHAT is it?
Self-in-Sight isn’t just another service. It’s a portal to your emotional depths.
This isn’t strategy. It’s soul work. A space for emotional connection, deep self-inquiry, and alchemy.
A return to the parts of you that were quietly edited out— By expectations. By roles. By the rhythm of a life that looks like success on the outside…but no longer feels true on the inside.
At Self-in-Sight, we don’t fix. We remember. We reclaim. We give the quiet parts of you a voice—and we listen.
And yes, we go there. To your past. Your role in the family and in relationships. Not to dwell—but to retrieve the gold. Because in those stories live the keys to your emotional truth, the blueprint of your deepest needs, the root system of your freedom.
Self-in-Sight is the portal to a new connected world were autheticity is the currency and intention your power.
This is your homecoming.
This is Self-in-Sight.
We’re so glad you found us.
Welcome in.
For who is this?
Femme Leaders who are emotionally intelligent and self-aware but still are searching for something deeper.
It´s for women who are done performing healing and ready to truly feel it. Live it. Embody it.
Have done sefl-development work, but wants more than coping—you want to live from your Essence.
Don’t want another strategy—you wants something real.
Feel like the most alive version of yourself is just beneath the surface
Self-in-Sight is your space to come home, reclaim your emotional truth, and move through life with presence, power, and play.
Fr women who feel desire isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a signal. And you feel yours is calling you forward.
his is for women who take action. Who want: More play. More joy. More creative fire. More bold moves. More inner trust. More Freedom.
If that’s you, you’re already on your way. Because this life? It’s yours to live, fully.
Step inside!
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HOW does it work?
Self-in-Sight is a portal into your emotional truths and a path back to your most liberated self.
Housed inside the App. - A safe place to start slowing down and tuning in. Inside the app, you’ll find free and paid courses designed to meet you exactly where you are. Start here:
The Invitation - a Free introduction to the Core Emotional Needs & The Needs Re-Set.
The Needs Re-Set - A gentle yet powerful course helping you reconnect with your Core Emotional Needs.
Then, you choose the level of depth and connection you’re ready for.
Break the Spell - A 7-day course to help you reset your nervous system, reclaim your energy, and break the Performance Spell. Self-Study.
The Reclamation - A 5-week deep dive for women ready to stop performing and start leading from their inner truth. You'll explore life scripts, shift emotional patterns, and reclaim your power. Self-study + Group Coaching and Community Support.
The Freedom Lounge - A 12-month high-touch container for Femme Leaders ready to embody their emotional truth and live a life that feels just as good on the inside. Includes all of the Above + 1:1 sessions.
“The Past is the Root that Becomes the Tree"
self-in-sight
Founder
Sara Lee
About me
I’m Sara Lee- transformational coach, licensed psychotherapist, emotional alchemist, mother, swede, dash hound lover and creator of Self-in-Sight.
Since childhood, I’ve followed my own rhythm. I was the dreamer, the disruptor, the girl who colored outside the lines and questioned the rules. While others followed expectations, I followed my curiosity.
I didn’t grow up in a world that honored emotional truth. I learned early to perform, to please, to stay small to avoid conflict. And for a while, it worked. I became successful by external measures—coaching leaders, working in corporate, delivering high-level trainings. But I was always overriding myself. Until my body said no.
Burnout wasn’t the end. It was my invitation home. Back to my needs.
Back to my truth. Back to freedom.
Now, I live my dream in Spain, creating from joy and guiding others to do the same. I’ve spent the last 20 years walking with women (and men) who want to stop performing and start becoming.
My work is rooted in psychology, somatic awareness, emotional insight, and spiritual depth. I hold space for what’s real, name what’s unspoken, and help you meet yourself without judgment.
I am a living proof that what hasn’t been proven… is still deeply real. And my work is to invite others into that frequency of truth - not to argue for it, but to embody it.
Because you don’t have anything to prove. You don't need fixing. You need space to feel. You need tools that work. You need a guide who’s walked this road.
This isn’t a program. This is a portal.
And you are Invited!
what you're called to:
01
Self-Sacrifice → Radical Self-Care
You’ve spent years putting others first. You are better at prioritizing yourself know and NOW It’s time to reclaim your energy, your time, and your life without apology.
02
Perfectionism-Induced Procrastination → Good-Enough Action
Perfection have kept you slow.
You don’t need to do it flawlessly -you just need to begin.
03
Self-Doubt → Unshakable Self-Belief
You’ve questioned yourself long enough. It’s time to trust yourself like you trust others.
04
Imposter Syndrome → Owning Your Skills
You are not a fraud. You are capable. You are experienced. You are ready. And you Know it.
05
Self-Criticism → Deep Self-Trust
That old voice telling you you’re not enough? It’s not as laud as it
used to be. You know it was never yours to begin with. The time has come to replace doubt with unshakable self-trust.
06
Boundary Issues → Fierce Protection of Your Space
Boundaries aren’t selfish. They are proof that you respect yourself.
07
Overthinking → Rest and Replenishment
Not everything needs to be solved in your mind. Your insights come when you create space to feel. That’s what you are going to do now.
08
Overcompensation or Self-Sabotage → Aligned Self-Actualization
Success doesn’t have to come at the cost of burnout. You don’t have to overextend—or play small—to thrive. You have learnt to turn your fire spitting inner dragons into pets.
09
Relationship Strain → Healthy, Thriving Connections
You say goodbye to people who drain you, to not loose yourself.
10
Poor Work/Life Balance → Harmonious Integration
Your career and personal life don’t have to compete. You can have both—without burnout.
11
Anger Issues → Authentic Expression of Needs
Your emotions are not the problem. Suppressing them was. Your voice matters.
12
Burnout and Exhaustion → Energized, Empowered Living
You are not here to merely survive. You are here to thrive.
13
Anxiety → Inner Peace
Fear doesn’t have to control you. Peace begins when you stop fighting yourself. Your turn your worst emotions into your best allies.
14
Fear of Failure → Mastery Through Experimentation
You don’t have to get it right the first time. You know failure is the only way to mastery.
Are You Ready To Accept the Calling?
You are invited to start for Free with our introduction to the emotional needs
words from clients :)
“Working with Sara I gained a new understanding of myself—I now feel calmer, more confident, and free from the limitations that once held me back. It has been invaluable for both my personal growth and my relationships. With greater self-awareness, I’ve dared to open up more and see both myself and the world in a new light. This work has truly given me the power to choose my own path forward as my strongest, most conscious self”
—Denise
" When I started working with Sara I was stuck in a relentless cycle of anxiety and sleepless nights and I felt powerless. Through our work together, I began to understand the emotional patterns shaped in childhood that were driving my reactions. With that insight, things started to shift. I sleep better now, feel more grounded, and have a deeper sense of emotional freedom. Sara holds space in a way that feels both safe and empowering. She sees you clearly, meets you with warmth, and gently challenges you to grow. Working with Sara helped me break patterns I thought I’d be stuck in forever. I’d recommend it to anyone ready to create real, lasting change."
—Camilla
I was stuck in negative cycles after workplace conflicts, feeling emotionally drained, isolated, and unable to let go. This led to self-doubt and insecurity in group settings, making me feel like I'd lost myself. Working with Sara I have processed these experiences and regained my sense of self. The events no longer define me, and I now understand the unhelpful patterns from my past that shaped my reactions. Learning about your life themes is invaluable for anyone struggling with unresolved trauma or negative patterns. Don’t hesitate—it’s a powerful way to heal and move forward.
—Anna-Lena
"If you feel stuck or find yourself repeating the same patterns without knowing why, I highly recommend you to go on this path with Sara. It has not only brought me understanding but empowered me to move forward in life with greater self-awareness and confidence.Learning about my life themes has given me tools to manage my reactions, and more importantly, the self-compassion I was missing. It has not only brought me understanding but empowered me to move forward in life with greater self-awareness and confidence."
—Maria